Thank you for the steps that you have taken with me in this journey that I have begun. Each and every one of you has played a role in my adoption process, and the support I have received from you is overwhelming. I deeply appreciate the thoughts and prayers that you have sent my way. Please continue with me on my journey to bring Kyle home!
For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

Officially an American citizen

My First Baby

My First Baby
Reese Dakota

2nd visit

Napping with Mommy

Friday, January 30, 2009

"We are now in Moscow and Kyle did great on his first
airplane ride! Our flight time was actually almost three
hours from Kazan to Moscow because of the fog but
fortunately, Kyle fell asleep the final 45 minutes of the
plane ride and did not wake up until we landed. After we
landed, Kyle got an Embassy Physical and we will be
completing paperwork over the next several days. We
went to have lunch after the physical at a Sushi Restaurant
and Kyle did great...he has a wonderful appetite as you
can probably tell from his pictures. On Thursday morning,
Grampy built Kyle a snowman and we walked around the
streets of Moscow which is very similar to New York.
This afternoon, we are headed to the Embassy to work
on the Visa. Kyle took his Visa picture yesterday and sat
perfectly still on the chair but did not crack a smile. Kyle
woke up this morning and was in a great mood and ready
to go. The words used to describe him "active and curious"
were very accurate!!!! :) He really is a great kid and yes,
I am now completely biased. Looking forward to coming
home soon. I feel for all of you in the cold weather.....the
shoes, the sweater, the jacket, the hat, the scarf, the
gloves.........! Kyle will enjoy his shorts, t-shirt and flip flops
soon enough as will his mother."





Tuesday, January 27, 2009

"And so our trip in Kazan is finally coming to a close. We
will depart for Moscow on Wednesday at 7:15 A.M. for the
next phase of the adoption process. While the ten day
waiting period felt like forever, it has now come and gone and
it is with mixed emotions that we will be leaving Kazan. Kyle
will probably never completely remember his experience in Kazan
and while it was a joyous occasion to pick him up for the last time
at the orphanage, it was also sad as we departed. Kyle was truly
blessed during his time in the orphanage as the caregivers, doctors,
and other orphanage workers stood in the waiting room and
watched him leave. Even as we went to the car, they looked out
the window and waived goodbye. It was painfully obvious how
much they all loved Kyle and were truly happy for him. We
have spent a lot of time with Svatlana, Roman and Jane,
and it will be very sad to say goodbye to our new friends. Roman
took us to a Kazan professional hockey game on Sunday evening
which we enjoyed. Jane has gone above and beyond her duties
as an interpreter and obviously is the only one who truly
understands what we say. She has been our interpreter and friend
during the process and has been with us during all of our visits
during the ten day waiting period. We will all miss Jane and Kyle
will definitely miss flirting with her! I want Kyle to remember all
of the special people in Kazan who loved him and prayed for the
best for him. We took a lot of pictures and video to remind Kyle
of all of the wonderful people who helped him transition into a new
phase in his life. Speaking of Kyle, as you can see, he is now fully
clothed in his own new attire and is quite handsome I must say.
He is a goofy guy with those people he feels comfortable around
but has some stranger anxiety and just gets these big serious
brown eyes...don't worry as he will soon get to know each
of you! Mommy kinda likes him attaching to her at this point :)
He was probably over stimulated at the hotel but had dinner, a
bath and finally, as you can see, fell asleep. He truly is a little angel
(especially when sleeping) and he has a kind heart. Thanks again
for all of the prayers...as you can see from the pictures, they are
being answered!"



Saturday, January 24, 2009

"It is hard to believe it, but the days which seemed to
be going by so slow are now starting to fly by! We have
completed days 7 and 8 and the next few days look to
be quite busy. On Sunday, we only have the morning
visit and will spend the afternoon shopping for diapers
and any other item that guarantees that Kyle will be quiet
on the airplane (don't think they sell those items with a money
back guarantee). We were also invited by our driver to attend
a hockey game tomorrow evening. We have made numerous
friends with the staff at the Korston Hotel and all of them want
to see Kyle on Tuesday when get him out of the orphanage.
We will be flying to Moscow on Wednesday early in the morning to
finalize everything at the American Embassy and obtain all of the
necessary paperwork. We will keep you posted."

Thursday, January 22, 2009

"We are happy to have completed Day 6 and we want you
to know that we are semi-celebrities at the Korston Hotel. In
between visits, we returned to the hotel and our friend, Dinara,
at the front desk, informed us that the deputy general manager
would like to meet us. We met her and she told us she was glad
that we were enjoying our stay (after all, that is a sign we have
been here a LONG time) and sent to our room a complimentary
plate of chocolates! Also, she said that we are the first people
staying at the Korston Hotel who were in the adoption process
and enjoys Americans as there are very few Americans and
English speaking individuals who visit Kazan. We have been really
fortunate to meet some nice people at the hotel and have our friends
at each of the five restaurants we frequent at the hotel. We get
especially good service at the buffet from one waitress who always
smiles (rare for Russia) but I believe that is because Americans
still tip!"

kyle come home

"We are offically through the midway point of the ten
day waiting period. On Wednesday, we actually had an
"out of routine" day for us and we really enjoyed the change.
I purchased a couple of pieces of art but it is not that easy to
get them out of the country. We had to go to the art gallery,
take pictures of the art, and bring the pictures to a museum
so that the museum can confirm the paintings are not
masterpieces or of significant value to the Russian culture.
Today, we have to do more to get the appropriate "documentation."
As an aside, "documentation" is necessary for just about eveything
in Russia. I hope that the pictures are of significant value one day
in several years! We have officially been gone almost two weeks
and we started to run out of laundry so we had the distinct pleasure
of being invited to our interpreter's house (Jane) to do laundry
and for dinner. It was really a treat to have a home cooked meal!
Jane took us all over the place in between visits to get all of the art
documentation finalized and Kyle loves to flirt with Jane! He is
going to be a true ladies man. We actually went to the Kremlin
and you can see the picture of my Dad and I in front of the
mosque, a very old and established building in Kazan. The sun
was shining yesterday but today is like a winter wonderland
fairytale. Kyle is starting to sing with us during the visits. When
we Sing Rock-A-Bye Baby, he tries to outsing us with his
rendition - BaBaBaBa.....! As a part of Gator Nation, he also
enjoyed his first experience with Gatorade. We will keep you posted."

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

"Well, we are almost midway through the ten day waiting period
as we have completed Day 3 and Day 4. I cannot say enough about
how well Kyle is progressing each visit. He is more and more
comfortable with us and has now joined us in Singing Rock A
Bye Baby. Of course, his words are somewhat difficult to discern
but he babbles on and on with the best of them. Even our social
worker in Russia commented today on how much he has changed
for the better. He is as happy as can be and just makes himself
right at home. He has a routine when he enters the room - he
completely empties my backpack and then plays with his toys
and non-toys that he locates in the backpack. Some of his
"favorites" include paper bags (probably not a good toy idea),
pieces of paper with instructions (which he likes to rip up) and
boxes (which now after constant use do not hold much). He
definitely loves music and likes to play the songs on his toy
Octopus which you squeeze and it plays music. When the
music starts, he also has some great dance moves and he is
trying to teach me a few of them. Speaking of routine, Dad
and I have gotten into quite a routine ourselves. Unfortunately,
our routine consists of the same Korsten Hotel buffet which
seemed to offer plenty of options during the first few days but
after one week, the offerings seem to be the same. With the
visits to Kyle being spaced out, we basically return to the hotel,
eat lunch, and head back to the orphanage. Today, we ventured
out to the market to buy Kyle apple juice and cookies (that
takes away 15 minutes of the 120 minutes each visit) and we
strategize on when to give the juice and cookies as we remain
in the same room as Trip 1. Fortunately, the room is not a sauna
like it was during Trip 1! Dad and I have been joking on who
will make it to the Russian hospital first for slipping on the ice.
I would have put decent money on my Dad falling first as he has
already slid across an icy grate that he did not see and managed
a few other manuveurs, however, today I gave him a run for his
money. As we returned from the market, I rounded a corner
and thought I was sliding into home base. Fortunately, a rather
large gutter came down the side of the building which I quickly
grabbed to steady myself and my Dad then assisted the steadying!
So the odds are getting closer to even at this point but I still think
my dad will "eat it" first! Anyway, thanks again for all of your
kind thoughts and prayers! We will keep you updated!"

Sunday, January 18, 2009

A weekend in Kazan....we offically started the ten day countdown
on Saturday following the Friday Court Session. We enjoyed two visits
at the orphange to see Kyle on Saturday and each and every day, he
gets more and more attached. In fact, at the end of visit two on Saturday,
he did not, for the first time, want to go back to his room. Once he got to
his room and realized it was dinner time, he was fine. We woke up on
Sunday and the sun was shining...it was a beautiful day in Kazan. The
picture you see is of a frozen Volga River and there are guys who look
like Penguins who sit on the ice, drill a hole in the ice and fish. In the
distance, you can see the Kremlin and with the sun shining today, it was
the prettiest day yet. Suprisingly, despite the beautiful sun reminiscent
of a perfect day in Florida, it was also the coldest day at 4 Degrees
Farenheit. We were only allowed one visit because it is Sunday and
we had a great time today...we danced and Kyle gave me a big kiss :)
Dad and I went to an art gallery and had lunch with our interpreter,
Jane. We also took a walk nearby our hotel but it was too cold for me!
We hope that this week goes by quickly and that we return home soon!

Friday, January 16, 2009

"This morning, we woke up to a snowy winter wonderland outside
the window. The snow ushered me into my first day of motherhood
as it is official - I am a mother! We proceeded to the Russian court
today in Kazan which took place in a relatively small room with the
Judge, Prosecutor, Secretary of the Court, Social Worker, and
interpreter. It was a closed proceeding so Grampy did not get to
listen to the inquisition. I was questioned in great detail but after 1 1/2
hours, the Court advised that Kyle Daniel Fernandes is my new son :)
As the Russian laws are very stringent, the court did not waive the ten
day period so we will remain in Kazan another two weeks to get the
written decision of the Court and all appropriate paperwork and in
Moscow several days following that. We are presently scheduled to
come home on February 6, 2008, and we cannot wait to get home!!
We missed our morning visit with Kyle but got to spend two hours
with him this afternoon. Each day, he is happier and more content
with us. We know that all of you are going to love this little guy but
he is going to be a heartbreaker!"

Thursday, January 15, 2009

"Hello again from Kazan. Today we enjoyed seeing Kyle
during two visits and as you can see from the pictures, he is
getting more and more comfortable with us each time. We even
get to see his dimples a lot more often as he marches into the room
and is not as distracted as he used to be. He really is a happy little
guy and we cannot wait to get him home. On that note, we spent
time during the two visits preparing for the Court hearing tomorrow
(Friday January 16) at 10:00 am. I was advised that I will be able to
do a 5-7 minute opening statement and also some closing remarks.
I tried to explain that as a lawyer, I would only be able to get my
name out in 5-7 minutes but they let me know with a smile that
I should try to tell the Court about my background, family, friends,
job and education in 5-7 minutes with an interpreter...that should be
fun! With regards to my closing remarks, I was advised that if I
have any chance for the Court to waive the 10 day period, I should
ask during the closing statement but when I asked what my chances
were, I was told none. Apparently, an American couple adopted a
Russian child and a month ago in December, the father left the child
in the car killing the child which has caused the Russian courts to really
tighten up the regulations. Nonetheless, I will try to make a compelling
closing statement but regardless, we will probably be in the lovely
Kazan for an additional week stimulating their economy! We appreciate
your prayers and by the time you all wake up tomorrow, court will be
over and he will be a day closer to offically being mine and the King of
many other hearts! Thanks again for your thoughts and prayers!!!!"

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

"Today, Wednesday January 14, we traveled to the orphanage
and Kyle got to take a road trip to get his passport pictures taken.
This is the first Kazan road trip with Kyle and although most
children, so I am told, cry and scream en route to get the passport
pictures taken, Kyle was perfectly still. When we arrived today,
I did not go to his room to meet him but when he walked down the
hallway, he recognized me and came running down the hall...it
was truly a priceless moment!! I brought his brand new black
ski jacket and red hat which I hoped that he would be able to
wear to go outside and on this trip. Unfortunately, he is still
required to wear "orphanage only" brand clothing. I guess they
picked out the Florida warm winter ski suit for Kyle because it
had Mickey Mouse on it - the one catch being that it was hot pink.
So yes, that is still my all boy little guy in his Pretty in Pink clothing.

When we arrived at the picture place, Kyle had to sit on a stool
to get his picture taken. He sat there as quiet as a mouse perfectly
still as you can see from the picture. The photographer said that she
has never seen a child sit so still for his pictures. Of course, when I
take his picture, he never sits still! Kyle actually sat there mesmerized
by the camera but did not smile at all for the camera. I think he was
happy to leave but not happy to put the pink jacket back on!

During the afternoon visit, Kyle was not very happy because
he is teething but that is nothing a little gel on the gums cannot fix!
After applying the analgesic on his gums, he was back to his usual
happy self and we really enjoyed a nice visit. He definitely likes
Mommy's toys - my phone, my camera and my camcorder being
his top three choices! He is saying "Mom" but I cannot yet confirm
with certainty he is saying it in the correct context (more to follow on
that once confirmation is made!). His two favorite English words are
up and hi! He also tries to say a lot of other words which could either
be jibberish or Russian as they both sound the same to me!

This evening, my Dad and I decided to walk to a pizza place called
the "Boogie Woogie Pizza and Pasta." As the name was in English
and we have been trying past it every day, we ventured into the
restaurant and were delighted to hear a familiar sound - Lynard
Skynard. Playing on the TV was a video of the 30 year reunion
of Lynard Skynard labeled the "Status Quo Tour" which also was
projected onto the restaurant wall. On one side of the restaurant
the lead singer and guitar player were painted onto the wall with
a bunch of people painted on the bottom (the painting was also
done 30 years ago when they were much younger). So here we
are in a Pizza Restaurant watching and listening to Sweet Home
Alabama and Freebird with no ability to read the menu and no
ability to communicate with the waitresses. That basically limited
us to either pizza or lasagna and we opted for the lasagna....no
wonder the Russians are so skinny. They have mastered portion control!!!

Tomorrow, Thursday, January 15, 2009, I will prepare for the
Court hearing on Friday January 16, 2009. I will keep you informed
and thanks again for being a part of this journey!"



Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Greetings again from Kazan, Russia, birthplace of one
of America's soon to be newest residents, my own little
guy, Kyle Daniel Fernandes!!! We arrived in Kazan
today weary and wary. Weary from our exhausting
travels, wary because I anxiously await Kyle's responsiveness
to us in our reunion after a month's separation. It has
been an adventure beyond anything I could have ever
imagined or projected.

As I last reported, our arrival in Moscow was accomplished
without two pieces of our luggage and I previously wrote
that the missing items were "allegedly"due to arrive in
Moscow Sunday afternoon and then delivered to our hotel. At
the time of my writing, I didn't know how significant my term
"allegedly" would actually be. The bags did not arrive Sunday,
nor did they arrive Monday. We were told the bags were definitely
in Moscow at the airport, yet customs would not release
them for transfer to our hotel. I can't explain to you how
significant one of the bags was. It contained my Dad's C-pap
machine, a machine.

You see, without the C-Pap, my father's snoring is reminiscent
of a freight train constantly roaring through our hotel room.
We were so exhausted the first night from our sleepless
international travel that I could have slept through a
freight train contantly roaring through our hotel room.
In fact, I did! The next night in Moscow was a somewhat
less tolerable. Day three without the machine was intolerable!
Our flight to Kazan Tuesday morning was scheduled for
7:20 A.M., which meant we had to leave our hotel by 4:50
because of the Moscow traffic. We were advised that we
could pick up the missing bags at the airport.

The freight train awakened me at what I thought was
2:30 A.M. Since we were scheduled to wake up at 3:30,
I got up early and took a long bath, hearing the constant
sound of the roaring freight train even with the bathroom
door shut. I was conscientious enough to let my father sleep
until he had to get up. I wakened the freight train at 3:45.
At least what I thought was 3:45. My father asked, "Why
are you up so early?"

"It's not early," I replied. "It's 3:45. We HAVE to get
to the airport to get your bags before our flight."

"It's not even midnight," he said. "It's 23:45, not 3:45."
In my frustration I had missed the extra 2, which made
it really 11:45, not 3:45. My Dad had been asleep for an
hour and a half. Now he was the one being conscientious, staying
up the rest of the night so that I could sleep!

We arrived at the airport around 5:30. We went to
Lost and Found as instructed. There weren't many
people there, but there were hundreds of suitcases in several
different areas. The Customs people looked through a series
of manual logs (non computerized) searching for the missing
bags. Their efforts appeared futile. I was going to Kazan.
My Dad was staying in Moscow until the breathing machine
was found even if I had to go alone. WE were finally told to
look through the piles of misplaced baggage in what looked to
be an impossible task. Many of the bags looked alike.
Fortunately (Thank you Lord!!!), the key bag was my Father's
UM bag!! Miraculously, after searching hundreds of bags,
near the end of the stack, somehow, my Dad identified
the UM symbol. Even being the proud Gator that I am,
I was never more relieved in my life to see that old UM symbol!! It
was time to go to Kazan and see my little guy.

Oh yeah, forgot to mention about my Monday, which
included an 8 doctor physical exam which lasted several hours.
The clinic is the facility which serves the Kremlin staffers.
It was an interesting experience, which I shared with two
other adopting couples, one from New Brunswick, Canada,
the other from Minneapolis. All went well. The day in Moscow
ended with a sleety snow, which resulted in sidewalks that
resembled skating rinks. Somehow, we survived the
icy terrain without falling, although I must confess that
there were several close calls!

Today was reunion day with Kyle. He just must be
the cutest guy in the whole wide world! I won't say
that he jumped up and down recognizing Grampy and me
after a month's absence, but I will tell you that he did
remember many of the experiences of our first visit. He
still says, "Up," when we take him for rides in the back
of the toy dump truck, just like it did last month. He still
follows our instructions to hold on to the side of the dump
truck before we lift him, just as we taught him in December.
It was a great reunion and our time with him was special.
He has matured some in a month. He is definitely
more focused than we recall. I can't wait to get him
back to South Florida. Tomorrow, he takes his passport
photos, which should be another adventure!

Sorry to make this so long. I will keep you posted.
Trust all is well with all!! Bye for now.



Sunday, January 11, 2009

Kyle Come Home

"Happy New Year to all of you loyal followers. I hope that you all had
a fantastic Holiday Season and wish you the best in 2009. I know that
2009 will always be a memorable year!! We left for Moscow the day
after the Gators won the National Championship...Go Gators!! The trip
over was exhausting...we spent about 26 hours from the time we
arrived at the Fort Lauderdale airport to the time we left the Moscow
airport. The airport was like a zoo .... we got three of our five pieces of
luggage and the other two stayed in London...hard to locate luggage
when you only speak English (and I thought the South Floridians were
rude)! The other two pieces of luggage are allegedly being delivered
tonight! Fortunately, Dad and I are feeling much better after sleeping
in a bed as opposed to the airplane! We spent the day walking around
Red Square and the Kremlin. The Russian architecture is absolutely
beautiful as you can see from the picture. In fact, we are not being
singled out as Americans as we were offered a tour in Italian, then
Spanish and when we spoke, finally English! Must be the dark hair!!
We are staying in Moscow because on Monday, January 12, I am
undergoing the required Moscow physical and then we will be flying
out early Tuesday to Kazan to see little Kyle :) Again Happy New
Year and Kyle is proud to say that he is part of Gator Nation, the
2008 National Champions!!