"We are leaving for Kazan tomorrow (Wed) and we went to
see Kyle twice yesterday (Monday) and have completed our
first visit on Tuesday. On Monday, I had the opportunity to sit
down with the caregiver to learn a little bit more about Kyle
and his habits. He has five other children in his group and they
and his habits. He has five other children in his group and they
all hang out together. They described Kyle as being active,
a fast learner and a little on the stubborn side. In the orphanage,
they share toys although it is my understanding that Kyle does
not prefer to share but he does so very willingly with Mommy
and Grampy. When we first came to the orphanage, I gave Kyle a
Bear and Blanket which you see in the pictures from today. These
items belong only to Kyle and he sleeps with the Bear and Blanket
each night. The caregiver told me a story about the bear. When
Kyle goes to sleep, he likes to move back and forth and he took
the bear and was rocking the bear back and forth in his bed.
Finally, the caregiver told me that she went over to his bed and
Finally, the caregiver told me that she went over to his bed and
told him (in Russian of course) that the bear had fallen asleep at
which point Kyle put the Bear down, closed his eyes and
immediately fell to sleep! During the Morning visit today
(Tuesday), I walked down the long hallway to the room where I go
each day with the interpreter to get Kyle. Kyle came running over
each day with the interpreter to get Kyle. Kyle came running over
to me and wanted me to hold him immediately. I then told him
in English "Go get your Bear" and he understood perfectly as he
walked to the sleeping room, opened the door and got his Bear.
The interpreter looked at me in amazement and I told her
that I wish I could learn Russian as fast as he is learning English. The
interpreter told me that it is strange for her when families return
that I wish I could learn Russian as fast as he is learning English. The
interpreter told me that it is strange for her when families return
to adopt a second child and bring the first child back because she
remembers them speaking Russian and they no longer speak or
understand any Russian! I will enjoy our second visit today and
Grampy and I will be very sad to leave Kyle after tomorrow's visit
but look forward to returning soon to get him! Aside from the
Bear and the Blanket, Kyle really enjoys his sippy cup as you
Bear and the Blanket, Kyle really enjoys his sippy cup as you
can see from the picture. He does get to hear the word Niyet (No)
because he also tries to dump out the water and finds it to be very
funny. Grampy and I do our best to entertain him in the small room
for two hours at a time and have added to our repertoire of toys
each day. As with any kid, he enjoys the boxes more than the toys!"